Are you a kinship caregiver providing care to a senior family member or friend?
It’s normal for families to have a myriad of questions about issues such as long term care, estate/Medicaid planning and guardianship when they first enlist the services of an elder law attorney.
One important ethical consideration for families to understand is that elder law advocates must clearly set forth who the actual client is. Depending on the circumstances, the client may be the senior, the caregiver, or even both (the family).
This delineation is very important because it will inevitably affect the way that an attorney can interact with involved parties. Keep in mind that, under the vast majority of circumstances, an attorney can’t share information about his or her client with another party without the client’s (preferably written) permission to do so. That said, the attorney may still be able to accept information from you without providing information to you.
This can be a delicate proposition for parties on both ends of the phone, but we always do our best to respect a senior client’s right to client confidentiality and self-determination while recognizing that, as time passes, roles can change.
As an extension of her law practice, Stasia regularly performs at musical events benefitting local organizations who support elders and individuals with special needs.
“Pam’s Party: A Joy’s House Open House” will be held next week-on the evening of Thursday, July 26th @ 6:30pm at Joy’s House in Broad Ripple Village. It’s a celebration to honor caregivers and Guests/potential new Guests.
This open house is free to attend, but you may wish to bring cash for supper and activities, which will be available for purchase.
Hope to see you there!
p.s. Little people are especially welcome to try out the accordion, guitar, shakers, or mandolin at the “instrument petting zoo!”
July 1st, 2018 marks the implementation of several common-sense changes that the Indiana Legislature recently made to Indiana’s medical consent statute (I.C. 16-36-1-1 et. seq.)
If a person becomes incapable of making their own health care choices and doesn’t have written advance directives in place, Indiana law now has the following “priority order” of people who can make these choices on an individual’s behalf:
- A judicially appointed guardian of the person
- Adult Child
- Adult sibling
- Adult grandchild
- Nearest relative in next degree of kinship who is not listed in sections 2-7
- Friend who:
- Is an adult;
- Has maintained regular contact with the individual and;
- Is familiar with the individual’s activities, health and religious or moral beliefs.
- The individual’s religious superior, if the individual is a member of a religious order
If there’s more than one member of a voting group, then they must try to reach a collaborative consensus. If they can’t agree, then the majority rules.
The new law also specifies that the following people can’t make health care decisions:
- A spouse if the individual legally separated (or the spouse is the reason that the individual is hospitalized.)
- A person who is subjected to a protective order involving the individual
- A person who is subjected to pending criminal charges involving the individual
- A person the individual intentionally excluded when he or she signed advance directives
So, what practically happens when there is no advance directive and a person can’t consent to healthcare? In that case, the person’s care providers are required to conduct a “reasonable inquiry” to determine who can consent.
The good news? By naming a health care representative or a health care power of attorney, you can take charge of these choices yourself and decide who will speak for you if you can’t. We can help.
Good health is such a very precious thing. So eat your veggies, do some yoga, and be empowered!
Talking about health care choices won’t kill you.
Elder law attorneys regularly have a unique vantage point into the reality that, even the healthiest and most functional of family roles and relationships can become very complicated very quickly when an elder loved one starts needing additional care.
As needs and long-held roles within a family change, many of our clients benefit from learning new ways of coping with evolving relationships and new realities.
In many cases, elder mediation can be a helpful and empowering tool. Mediation provides an opportunity for the elder and all involved members of a family to participate in thoughtful and collaborative decision making. It can provide a valuable opportunity for family members to attack the issues at hand instead of each other.
Once the family has settled on a plan, then we can often help by drafting the documents needed to put that plan into action.
A core value of our practice is the dignity, autonomy, integrity, and protection of elders and their families. So give us a call if you have questions about elder mediation, supported decision making, or long term care planning on behalf of an elder loved one.
We can help.
Did you know that March is Indiana Disability Awareness Month?
No matter the differences between us, it’s always better to treat others the way you want to be treated, and this is especially true when interacting with our co-workers, classmates, and neighbors who live with disabilities.
The 2018 Indiana Disability Awareness Month campaign theme- “Be Cool, We are!”- is all about the importance of being comfortable in your own skin and making the conscious decision to be yourself.
Acting differently around someone with a disability isn’t cool.
So… be cool!
And learn more about Indiana Disability Awareness Month here.
Happy New Year to you and yours!
Here’s to eating clean, moving more, being more intentional with time, and getting those little ducks in a row.
We usually get a deluge of estate planning inquiries in January as people make good on those resolutions.
Let us know if we can help.
(We’ll provide the caffeine.)
Thank you to the readers of Nuvo Newsweekly for choosing our office as an honoree in the “Best Attorney” category for their 2017 “Best of Indy” Issue. This public recognition means so much to us.
Thank you for inviting us into your adoption journeys, your estate planning and care planning conversations, your celebrations, and even your disappointments.
It is our privilege to advocate for you.
Be the boss.
We know that most people don’t particularly relish estate planning conversations.
But wouldn’t you prefer to be in charge of naming the trusted loved ones to care for your kids, manage your healthcare, help with your finances, and settle your estate?
We can help you be the boss.
Give us a call and we’ll help you contemplate your mortality (and your estate planning choices) as painlessly as possible.